Added: Gibran Brinkman - Date: 20.01.2022 07:58 - Views: 12292 - Clicks: 3198
Growing up, I had received similar advice from television shows, magazines, and even other women.
I was told to wait three dates —or better, five, or even better, eight —before having sex with a man. I was told to make him wait as long as you can, because if you have sex with him too soon, he will lose all respect for you. One woman in the Facebook group commented that, based on how long a woman waits to have sex with a man, he will put her in one of three : one night stand, friend with benefits, or wife material. So, she advised the original poster: If you truly want him to see you as wife material, you have to tease him.
Make him work for it. Dangle a carrot in front of his eyes.
Hold out for as long as you can, and make him chase you. According to all of these pieces of advice, sex is nothing more than a prize that a woman gives to a man to reward him for his time, his attention, and his persistence. She is a slut and a whore, and she is most definitely not worthy of being his wife—which is, naturally, what all women aspire to be. It strikes me as funny that women constantly have to prove themselves to be wife material, while men are automatically assumed to be husband material.
The bar is set extremely low.
And ultimately, if you are a man who loses respect for a woman once she sleeps with you, that only reflects on your character rather than hers. Her column appears on alternate Thursdays.
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